Ready to go...

These past four weeks have been a whirlwind...closing things out at work for a long break (I go back in February, 2013!), completing Hazel's bedroom and playroom and getting her initial wardrobe together :-) (hopefully, most of it fits), planning our trip and finishing up the last of this darn paperwork, today, I start packing...we leave in just 48 hours!!!!!

Hazel, here we come!

PS. I updated the timeline with all the latest goings on...also our travel itinerary.  Link at the top of this page and on the right.

Still Waiting

Well, it's been 60 days since I received my referral for Hazel ZiRui and sadly, we are still waiting to go get her.  The process is still moving along (I am moving through it as fast as humanly possible) and we are getting very close...I fully expect to travel to China in November.  I've updated the timeline to show where we are if you'd like to take a look (link at the top of this page).

Meanwhile, Hazel ZiRui is now 33 months old, ARGHHHH!!!! 

Giving Back

Knowing how very fortunate we are (I am and Hazel will be), my sister and I asked attendees at my recent shower to consider giving an orphanage donation instead of a shower gift.  We had an overwhelming response to this and as a result were able to send a large care package full of clothing, toys and lollipops (!) to the QinZhou SWI (Hazel's orphanage), along with some tea for Hazel's nannies.  I received confirmation that the package arrived this week.

I added a small disposable camera with a request for someone there to take photos of Hazel with her friends and nannies at the orphanage.  If all goes well, I would receive this back when we meet her and she will have these treasured photos forever.  Keep your fingers crossed!

Most importantly, donations made at the shower have enabled us to sponsor one of the other children at the orphanage.  The sponsorship will allow for his support in a wonderful foster care program that will help prepare him for adoption (Hazel had the good fortune to be in this program).  We will receive quarterly reports on his progress.  We are absolutely thrilled to be able to do this and really thankful for all the wonderful support!    

The Shower

Been a while since I posted, so I will catch everyone up to date.

Starting with the shower.  My sister hosted a shower for me and Hazel on October 7 at a nearby Asian restaurant (the food was fabulous), decorated for the day with Chinese lanterns,  cherry blossoms and orchids.  It was absolutely lovely attended by about 30 friends and relatives.  We requested that attendees bring their favorite childhood storybooks...Hazel received a wonderful library of books!  I can't wait to start reading with her.

We also requested that attendees consider an orphanage donation instead of a traditional shower gift and we had a great response to this...more about this in another post.

One of our friends who is starting up a custom cake business made the cake, it was both beautiful and delicious.  My sister came up with these custom  shower favors...chopsticks decorated with cherry blossoms and custom fortune cookies that read "Happiness is finding your forever family - Hazel ZiRui Curley 01-11-10".  

The quilt was brought out for all to see...many of the contributors were there.

My sister (with help from my Dad and my niece, Sarah) completely outdid herself...it was a lovely party.  Afterwards, we only wished we had more time to mingle and chat.
 

Hazel's Care Package

I got another message from Ann today, this time with a picture of the care package she has prepared to deliver to Hazel at the Qinzhou SWI from me.  I am hoping some of these little comforts will tide her over until we can get there.

On the lower left is a book that I created for Hazel (made on Shutterfly) to help introduce her to her new home and family...lots of pictures of her Poppy, her aunts and uncle and her cousins (as well as her dog and her chickens!).  I was able to find the Chinese characters to describe each picture and added them in hopes that someone there will "read" it with Hazel. Wish I could be there when she gets it. 

Hazel Update

Been a few days and I have been caught up in a flurry of paperwork.  My Seeking Confirmation Letter was sent to China and my Petition to Classify an Orphan was sent to the US Government...two major steps, so things are moving along.  I also had all of Hazel's paperwork reviewed by her new pediatrician and he gave it all the big "OK".

Then this morning, I got this gift.  I have been in touch with a woman in China who provides services to families that are adopting (Ann, she is wonderful) and she was able to get me some more current pictures and some additional information for Hazel ZiRui.  I estimate these to have been taken in the last three months (the previous pictures were most likely at least 6 months old). 

The other really important piece of information I received was her shoe size!!!   In the translated paperwork I received, I was told she LOVES shoes...likes to change them several times a day.  I'm telling you, a match made in heaven!!

I have a daughter

I am almost too happy to bear it.

On Friday, August 24, 2012 at 10:42am, I received a referral for my daughter (via email and telephone).  Her name is Min ZiRui and she was born on January 11, 2010.  We will call her Hazel ZiRui.  Hazel is currently in residence at the Qinzhou Social Welfare Institute and in foster care in the Guangxi Province, China.  I am still processing information and have a ton of paperwork to do (not that I am not familiar with that!), but in the meantime, here's Hazel and some of the basic information I know about her (I think she is my perfect match!):

Name:  Min ZiRui, will be Hazel ZiRui (ZiRui means Lucky Violet and is pronounced "tze-wray") 
Date of birth:  Monday, January 11, 2010 
Birthplace:  Qinzhou City, Guangxi Province, China (this is in the south of China, on the seacoast, on the Bay of Tonkin) 
Current location:  Hazel is in foster care during the day and returns to the orphanage at night.  This is a really good thing.
Height:  about 33 inches
Weight:  about 25 lbs.


More about Hazel:
   - She is a moderate sleeper.
   - She is active and loves toys.  She loves books and can turn the pages on her own.
   - She can walk and climb stairs on her own (must get busy childproofing!).
   - She is potty trained!
   - She has 20 teeth.
   - She likes music.
   - She can jump off the floor with both feet.
   - She doesn't appear to know her colors just yet (we'll get Aunt Suze on the case).

Still a few more bureaucratic steps in the process, but I expect to travel to China to bring Hazel home in November.  Aunt Susan, her godmother, will travel with me. I may get more information in the meantime and will keep everyone posted.