Hazel Update

Been a few days and I have been caught up in a flurry of paperwork.  My Seeking Confirmation Letter was sent to China and my Petition to Classify an Orphan was sent to the US Government...two major steps, so things are moving along.  I also had all of Hazel's paperwork reviewed by her new pediatrician and he gave it all the big "OK".

Then this morning, I got this gift.  I have been in touch with a woman in China who provides services to families that are adopting (Ann, she is wonderful) and she was able to get me some more current pictures and some additional information for Hazel ZiRui.  I estimate these to have been taken in the last three months (the previous pictures were most likely at least 6 months old). 

The other really important piece of information I received was her shoe size!!!   In the translated paperwork I received, I was told she LOVES shoes...likes to change them several times a day.  I'm telling you, a match made in heaven!!

I have a daughter

I am almost too happy to bear it.

On Friday, August 24, 2012 at 10:42am, I received a referral for my daughter (via email and telephone).  Her name is Min ZiRui and she was born on January 11, 2010.  We will call her Hazel ZiRui.  Hazel is currently in residence at the Qinzhou Social Welfare Institute and in foster care in the Guangxi Province, China.  I am still processing information and have a ton of paperwork to do (not that I am not familiar with that!), but in the meantime, here's Hazel and some of the basic information I know about her (I think she is my perfect match!):

Name:  Min ZiRui, will be Hazel ZiRui (ZiRui means Lucky Violet and is pronounced "tze-wray") 
Date of birth:  Monday, January 11, 2010 
Birthplace:  Qinzhou City, Guangxi Province, China (this is in the south of China, on the seacoast, on the Bay of Tonkin) 
Current location:  Hazel is in foster care during the day and returns to the orphanage at night.  This is a really good thing.
Height:  about 33 inches
Weight:  about 25 lbs.


More about Hazel:
   - She is a moderate sleeper.
   - She is active and loves toys.  She loves books and can turn the pages on her own.
   - She can walk and climb stairs on her own (must get busy childproofing!).
   - She is potty trained!
   - She has 20 teeth.
   - She likes music.
   - She can jump off the floor with both feet.
   - She doesn't appear to know her colors just yet (we'll get Aunt Suze on the case).

Still a few more bureaucratic steps in the process, but I expect to travel to China to bring Hazel home in November.  Aunt Susan, her godmother, will travel with me. I may get more information in the meantime and will keep everyone posted.

Still cooling my jets

Well, it has been a nail-biter this month.  They are later than usual with referrals for July, by about 10 days and during those 10 days, things have been really silent, no rumors at all.  Things finally broke today and it has been posted by China that they have referrals on the way for LIDs through 9/19....my LID is 9/20.  Yep, missed me by a day.

The good news is that I WILL be in next month's referrals and this gives me a few more days to prepare.  I am in the process of extending my paperwork so I can get to China and back before it expires.  Since it now seems likely that we will travel to China in November, the extension is definitely necessary.  And I think I have some painting to do...

A word about the Red Thread

As my wait comes down to days and weeks rather than months and years, a word about the red thread legend and adoption from China.  I have not bought into a lot of the trappings, but this particular proverb (shown above) did strike a chord with me.  My interpretation (and of course I had one) was to assemble a bracelet of small red glass beads which I donned on 9/20/2006 and have worn every day for the last 5 years, 9 months and 18 days.  I looked at it every day even when I was putting thoughts of the adoption on the back burner to maintain my sanity during this horrendous wait...it's been a good reminder. 

For more about the Legend of the Red Thread (aka the "red string of fate"):  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_string_of_fate

The thread is growing shorter as my match date/referral date approaches! 

Will it be July or August?

The Rumor Queen (a blog that many in the China adoption community follow) posted her predictions yesterday and today.  Despite a larger than usual batch of referrals for June, her predictions show that they still may not get to me (9/20/2006) next month.  She thinks perhaps only to 9/19, which would mean August for my match.  So, down to the wire, but still keeping me guessing.  Talk about pins and needles!

The Rumor Queen also predicts that referrals for July will come around the 23rd.  And I should mention that they blew by the prediction for June by 3 days, so there is still a lot of hope for July.

Unbelievable...

Well, well, well, referrals came yesterday and they made it through 09/15/06.  My referral date is 09/20/06.  09/15 was a Friday, so theoretically, the next referral date is 09/18/06.  Based on that (and I don't like to get my hopes up), it is almost certain that I will receive my match in July...OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so ready.

The Waiting Game Picks Up

Been a while since I updated, but the good news now is that things are picking up on the adoption journey (who would have though, right?).  Last month, they started processing dossiers from the month of September, 2006!!  While they only got to September 4, they are still FINALLY in September.

What this means, I will most certainly receive a referral THIS YEAR!!!!   I know, I've said that before, but unless they stop completely, I am very close.  Right now they are processing just a couple days at a time...there are so few people still waiting, that there are very few referrals on any given day.  Referrals for May will most likely come this week--each batch gives a better view of how much they are processing and when they will get to me, but best bet is July or August...coming really quick.  Note that the July or August would be for the referral then we (Aunt Susan and I) would travel to China about 3 months later in October or November.  Unless something drastic happens, Hazel will be home with her family for Christmas this year!

HOLD ON TO YOUR HATS PEOPLE!!!!